Truly loving yourself means honoring you and your life experiences. Take all the time you need to be with yourself to work out what is going on in your heart and mind. Others will judge you; this is part of the human condition; that one must come to a place of awareness and heal within. Whenever someone is judging you or projecting onto you this is a reflection of what needs attention and healing within one's self.
This journey is your own, honor and LOVE YOU, in whatever way you see fit!!! With self-reflection and self-love, we change our vibrational frequency. This is the energy we begin to emanate out into the universe. One can say that they are all about peace and love. However, if the individual has not taken the steps to truly heal their hearts and minds; not matter what they do to express peace and love. Their true intentions will vibrate at a lower frequency and can be felt by others.
Putting off your self-healing leads to the illness of the mind, body, and soul. And creates an acidic state in the body; so no matter how much good you put in; if you lack self-love and your mind is not in alignment with your actions you will not experience the balance to heal mind, body, and soul. And you will repel the very experiences you are working so hard to manifest in your life. Projecting out onto others only creates drama and more discord in your life. Choose to vibrate at a higher frequency!!!
Self-reflection may seem scary or may feel heavy based on all the pain you have experienced in this life. What is heavier is carrying all of those energies and pain around with you. Commit to yourself to start living a more peaceful existence, starting today. Work towards self-improvement and energetic alignment every day. And truly LOVE YOU and all that you are, so we can all experience PEACE ON EARTH.